HOW TO KOW IF SOMEONE IS IN LOVE WITH YOU

 

"Why is it that we don't always recognize the moment love begins, but we always recognize the moment it ends?"

. SO HERE ARE SOME TIPS TO LOOK OUT FOR IF YOU WANT TO KNOW HOW TRUE IS SOMEONE'S LOVE FOR YOU                

BODY LANGUAGE

If someone is in love with you or extremely interested in you the body language will scream volumes to you, if you are watching.The movements of the body are coming from the subconscious mind, so it can be a good monitor on how your person of interest is relating to you, feeling towards you and how much they love you. Watch for spontaneous movements of the person’s body coming in towards you, does the person bring their body close to yours spontaneously? A person who is in love with you has a need to have their body close to yours. Does the person slightly touch your arm to make a point or emphasis something they are saying? When in a crowd does the person you are with grab and hold your hand. When we are in love we naturally have a desire for our physical bodies to be close to the physical body of the person that we are feeling love for. When speaking to you is the person’s body language open to you - can you almost see their body inviting you in to hear what they have to say? Does your interested person touch you, come up and give you a hug. Our bodies follow our thoughts and feelings, so watch the body language of the person you are with and also monitor your own towards the other person.

 

Contact

A person in love with you or strongly interested'' cannot not'' communicate with you. You will findout the person will spontaneously send you a text for no apparent reason, call you to discuss something that happened at work. Contact is  always heightened in the beginning of every relationship when everyone is still on their good behaviour but as the months and years unfold love still keeps a desire in the person’s heart to communicate with you. In essence, you become best friends and best friends share intimate moments, interesting moments, and surprising news. It is not always how many times a person makes contact with you but the nature of the content. So, don't panic if your love interest isn't emailing you, texting you or phoning you a few times a day. We are looking for overall behaviour that shows - I'm into you! Now, worth mentioning that amount of "contact" can be determined by the type of boyfriend/girlfriend you have so look for the quality of the content of the contact. For example: if you are dating someone who is quite anal retentive or very organized they may not be the type of person who are into constant contact because they prioritize their day. Again, it isn't how often but what the content or the reason for the contact that dictates how a person feels about you.

Holidays/Special Occasions

Eventually if you become a couple you will begin the process of spending holidays together and inviting each other to special occasions with either work, family or friends. When a person is in love with you they want to be a part of your life and they want you to be a part of their life. It is a natural  step in the forming of a relationship. Meeting family, which is still considered "the big one" can take time so be patient if you haven't gotten to that step yet. But, spending time together on special days will just come naturally when you are both in love with one another. The person in love with you may begin mentioning about doing something with your friends - a great sign that this person is feeling pretty strongly for you! The person in love with you will want you to meet friends and eventually family.

 Flowers/Gifts
I will treat lightly on this subject as everyone has their own economic barometer and these things do cost money. However, receiving that special event bouquet of flowers or a special gift is also a sign that someone loves you as it gives them the opportunity to feel thoughtful and when we are feeling thoughtful it makes us feel good about ourselves. Now, just because your girlfriend/boyfriend hasn't gotten you flowers up to this point doesn't mean that they are not in love with you,but  flowers/gifts  can be used as a barometer as to how much someone loves you.

 

Saying "I Love You"

Yes, an obvious sign but the actual words should also be included in all of the above. Some people may not be good on the "I Love You" part, but may be stronger in touching you, holding your hand, including you in special events of their life so take this category and combine with all of the other signs to come up with a fair take on how your person is feeling towards you. For women, these are important words to hear because they validate them, make them feel secure and loved. For the guys, step it up and say it more if you are reading this...they are important words to girls!

 

Listening

A person in love with you will be willing to naturally listen to you when you are babbling on and on about what a co-worker did to you at work today. Now, love dictates that you naturally have empathy and compassion towards the person that you love so a gentle caring will exist that will cause the person to naturally want to listen to your woes up to a point. Harping, nagging or being negative all of the time does not cut it! But, the person loving you should naturally want to console you, listen to you if something has hurt you and offer wise, productive advice to help you get over your woes and little day to day hurts.

 Doing Things Together
A person in love with you cannot not be without you! The person naturally wants to do things with you, go to a game, go on a trip. The person wants to spend time with you and includes you in their lives. They will mention about taking a trip to Vegas, going to Nascar the followig Sunday. When we are in love we are uplifted by the person that we love so it is natural to want to spend time with them and do things with them. The person will mention things to do or will ask if you if you would like to do something. You are a couple and this is what couples do!

 Kissing           
you can only say you dont like kissing if you have been kissing the wrong lips. when you are in love, you would kiss your lover even if he/she just woke up, love makes you wanna eat the person you love and when you kiss him/her you will kiss very deeply with your eyes closed          

Romance

A certain degree of romance and/or romantic behaviour will exist. So much of romance is being thoughtful, attentive, and supportive but those romantic moments will happen naturally and the frequency has nothing to do with how much someone loves you. Your sexual relationship will have warmth to it, a natural flow of sexuality and desire to please the other person. That is what love does and that is what love is. At the end of the day loving someone is making them feel good about themselves as much as possible, thereby feeling good about yourself because you have made another person happy.

                         Cuddling

Cuddling is very important in every relationship. when your partner loves you he/she cannot sleep on thesame bed with you without his/her body wanting to hold yours. Cuddling is one of the sweetest parts of a relationship and it makes you feel loved and secured